你不说我怎么知道你想要

当面或语音求助比发信息求助成功率高三十倍。发信息没有当面说尴尬,但别人发信息拒绝你也没有当面拒绝你尴尬。

The bottom line is: I know - believe me, I know - that it is not easy to ask for help. We are all a little bit afraid to do it. It makes us feel vulnerable. But the reality of modern work and modern life is that nobody does it alone. Nobody succeeds in a vacuum. More than ever, we actually do have to rely on other people, on their support and collaboration, in order to be successful.

So when you need help, ask for it out loud. And when you do, do it in a way that increases your chances that you'll get a yes and makes the other person feel awesome for having helped you, because you both deserve it.

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