I was a director in my 20s and was suddenly on the cover of fucking Time Out New York! I was hot shit and I wanted to fuck everybody and I didn't. I didn't even wanna get married.
Naturally great fundraisers love people, they can and will talk to anyone, they can find common ground with anyone, they're your friends that talk to people in the elevator or at the grocery store. They believe in the work required to both build relationships and keep them. And they naturally have a high tolerance for rejection.